Its discouraging when you make plans for you and someone else, only to find out later that the other person whom you had in mind all along had a few plans of their own. There is a brief moment of dis pare and before long, you are mad at everyone and everything. Consolation comes next.
The one thing i have learnt is to be patient. let life play itself out. it sounds good on paper but takes tones of prayer and extra energy to achieve it.
we spend our youth looking for the right person to love. We choose partners and change partners. We dance to the songs of hope and heart breaks. Hoping that somehow somewhere there is some one out there waiting for us as well.